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Internet Drama
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I told myself I'd be returning to dA and I even cleared up my messages just so I wouldn't feel the need to slink away like a snake whenever I logged on. But then, I encountered one of the worst kind of drama: Internet Drama.

It started when I got to chat with a dA friend and she told me that they were leaving the group they were currently in because bossy people supposedly took over the club.

so why did the group even split up in the first place? The news that got to me was that the bossy people took over the club of their friend, not listening to her suggestions for the club, eventually kicking her out of the council etc etc. Like I said, internet drama.

One of the supposedly bossy people is also my dA friend but then a lot of my friends from the group were leaving for the new one so I might as well go along and belong to both groups. Why not, right?

WRONG. It was the worst decision I made in that situation, coward that I am, wanting to please everyone.

While I was thinking up the right way to ask the "bossy people" what happened, I got a note from my friend from that group, asking if I'm mad at her and if I'm leaving the group too. She also told me her side of the story. This was when I made the second worst decision I could have made. I left both groups. It just proves how much of a coward I am since I just don't want to piss anyone off by taking sides.

I left a message to my friend in the new group afterwards saying I won't be taking sides.

After I left, I thought it over and I remember that the original founder once made a blog entry in the group saying that she was leaving the decision making or stuff of that sort to the rest of the council because she's too busy to handle the group then. So I got really confused since she made that blog entry and all. It simply doesn't connect in my mind. e_o;

I asked my friend from the "bossy people group" and she said she deleted said blog entry because she wanted the original founder to come back to the council.

So I rejoined the original group. I know that my friend wasn't lying about the taking over thing not being true. I also feel bad for doubting her for a bit and not defending her. I should have. I've known her the most out of all the people in the group, out of dA. I know she has a strong personality and I admire her for it and I know she doesn't lie because she calls a spade a spade even if it hurts to hear it.

So I went back on my decision and rejoined the first group. I got a note from my friend in the other group saying she wishes I have fun in the group. Those words make me feel sad. I'm sorry for going back on my decision but rejoining PA is the only way I can make it up to my friend.

God, internet drama. I hate it.
More than I hate drawing Shizu-chan

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...e___o;;; Ewwww. Internet drama. I always tried to avoid them, y'know? It's really not worth time and energy, haha. I mean, the internet is just the internet. You can't please everyone and you can't piss everyone off. xD; I usually am just a ghost on DA. I avoid interaction with people as much as I can. And mostly avoid interaction with groups. I treat groups as places to pimp my artwork. Nothing more, nothing less. 8D;

So muh~ Hope you feel better from this? D: You really can't please everyone. And they're kind of selfish if they try to manipulate your choices. x_x;

-pats-
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I KNOW, RIGHT? D:

I'd love to do that too but I made friends and now I'm caught up between them. Oh wells. This is bound to blow off soon. I'll just hide in my blog. 8D;

Thanks so much Kyun. :3 I do feel better about it. In the end it's their problem and not mine. xD;

> ...e___o;;; Ewwww. Internet drama. I always tried to avoid them, y'know? It's really not worth time and energy, haha. I mean, the internet is just the internet. You can't please everyone and you can't piss everyone off. xD; I usually am just a ghost on DA. I avoid interaction with people as much as I can. And mostly avoid interaction with groups. I treat groups as places to pimp my artwork. Nothing more, nothing less. 8D;
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> So muh~ Hope you feel better from this? D: You really can't please everyone. And they're kind of selfish if they try to manipulate your choices. x_x;
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> -pats-

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Hallo~ I'm TD and I like to draw. A LOT.

I've been drawing for about a year now which makes me a hopeless newb.
I'm a self-taught artist and my improvement may be slow but I'm doing all that I can to improve at my own pace.

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